almost done

well, the marriage settlement agreement is done and the judgement has been submitted to the court.  The attorney assures us that the divorce will be officially finalized with a 2011 date.  i feel relieved, but at the same time, kind of strange.  he and I have managed to stay friends, all the while he continues to date.  He is dating 3 women now.  OMG

Before we decided to separate, I really felt that I just wanted to be free to date someone else, to have a chance at love with someone else.  But somehow, I just don't feel like dating.  I am really enjoying being "free" and not having to "take care" of a man right now.  In a sense, I feel like I am starting to date myself...strange, huh?  I am treating myself out to nice things, being good to myself, pampering myself, etc.  It sure is nice.